When Everything Changes
May 26, 2010 in self-awareness | Tags: change, dealing with emotions, ending a relationship, letting go, overcome fear, personal growth, self awareness | Leave a comment (Edit)
When Everything Changes
Have you ever had a moment in time, that moment you became aware of something new that you felt, and everything from that moment in time suddenly changed for you? Words no longer affected you the way they used to.
Do you remember how freeing that feeling felt? It was as if all of these new possibilites suddenly opened up before your eyes, when before you just didn’t see them coming. How could you? You were too busy looking back over your shoulder or out into the distant future. You spent so much time being afraid.
Do you remember fearing so much that something would happen, and then when you found yourself in the middle of that “something” happening the fear disappeared? It was as if this giant weight had suddenly been removed from your shoulders, and of course you realized that fear was that very weight the entire time. Experiencing your biggest fear seems almost unimaginable, and yet when such a big fear is experienced, it can feel like such a relief, because you have finally gotten that fear over with and can now move on.
Do you remember the moment you had that conversation? It was that conversation you had when it suddenly occured to you that what you thought you cared so much about suddenly didn’t matter. You weren’t just playing a mind game with yourself either, you physically didn’t feel that kick in the stomach you’d always felt before. You couldn’t help but smile in it’s recognition.
For a solitary moment you might have mourned what you thought so deeply you wanted, and then you recognized you didn’t have to mourn anything at all because the desire to have it was completely gone, and maybe even replaced with something new, and maybe even a better possibilty than before. If was almost as if that desire never existed at all. It became so freeing to finally let it go.
Do you remember that moment, when everything changed? When you realized the tears that you cried were tears of goodbye to an ideal that existed only in your mind? How freeing it was to no longer have to keep the fairytale alive. Let it rest in peace.
It was that moment when everything changed. When you woke up that next day from what seemed like a very long dream and you really knew that, Yes you could smile! Every cell in your body knew you would really be OK.
It can be a most beautiful moment when everything changes, and if you are silently smiling inside or nodding your head, then your body understands exactly what I mean. I’d love to hear your input.
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