Loving Your Body

Do You Fully LOVE Your Body?

Most of us DON’T in some way or another. And your body is affected by the actions you take, the thoughts that you think, the emotions you feel, and the beliefs that you have. Your body cells respond and have memory to all of these factors.


We compare and judge our bodies. We look in the mirror and we judge our appearance based on how the magazines, television, and society asserts we should look. 

We push our bodies hard. We work long hours. We don’t give our bodies enough sleep. We don’t hydrate enough. We rush, and sometimes we don’t take the time to fully breathe. We eat on the run, we skip meals, or we eat too much. We over stimulate or we over medicate. We over exercise or we don’t move our bodies at all. 

We lack self-compassion. New research is beginning to prove that self compassionate people are healthier people, a great reason to start loving your body more! Studies show that people who tend to be very compassionate toward others however, are often less compassionate with themselves. 
Do you have a problem putting yourself first?. Are you a perfectionist? Do you tend to beat yourself up for not being better, smarter, or more successful? Click here to learn more about the these studies. Or read the New York Times article, “Go Easy On Yourself, New Wave of Research Urges.
Your body talks to YOU, but sometimes you don’t listen. Headaches, stomach aches, and other body stresses become normal everyday sensations you just cope with. You ignore the “signals” of what you body needs. You feel aggravated on a daily basis. Your shoulders get tense often. Your mind reasons that this is just part of life and you just have to deal with it.When you physically feel bad, its easy to play head games, “I’m getting old!” or turn to blame: “You aggravate me and give me a headache!”

I’m here to help you show your body more love.
Loving your body just takes some effort, a bit of reminding, and practice, practice, practice! I’ve created this page to do exactly this: to help you accept your body more, and judge or compare less. I’ll share links and tips to inspire and empower you to do this.Haven’t we all spent enough time doing the opposite? Join me on Facebook. Follow my blog, I’m here to promote more self love, and I start with the body.


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Your Bad Grammar Really Bothers Me

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Your Bad Grammar Really Bothers Me

I’ve been silent here at the Share Your Love Story blog for about three months. I’ve had no words, but oh I’ve had plenty of emotions and negative thoughts after the closure of the business I had been trying to build since 2009.

I knew that acknowledging my failure would bring much for me to process. This was both expected and much needed.

The feeling of failure at anything, brings self judgment, and for the last 3 months I certainly have been processing my share. I couldn’t quite wrap my mind around the fact that I had failed at doing something that I loved, and yet, what I was doing wasn’t working…

….and so I stepped back.

Stopped.

All of the “You’re not good enoughs and not smart enoughs” bubbled up to the surface, and I let them, I felt them.

I swam through them and brought myself to a clearer place where I was open to new decisions, and new paths I never saw before. It’s a new journey I will share in future blogs.

Today I want to talk about judgement, since I have spent the last 3 months working through my own.

I was sparked by a picture that I saw on FB. It’s a humorous caption about bad grammar. I know many people can relate to this photo because it isn’t the first time I have heard people annoyed or joking about bad grammar. I’ll admit that I have cringed when their and there is used improperly.

However….

If anything triggers you or me THAT much it’s time to look within.

Bad grammar is no exception. We laugh and we giggle when someone uses hear and here in the wrong context, maybe you cringe, maybe you think to yourself how stupid the person is, maybe you can’t help but to correct them. Maybe you are one of the grammar police.

I’ve played my part. I’m no exception. I’ve also had private messages about my own posts.

Here is what I realize:


Judgment is judgment

Triggers are triggers.

Maybe what is behind this annoying grammar photo is YOUR or MY own fear of not being good enough, a FEAR of being stupid. A need to feel superior to someone else. Feel what you choose to from this.

But if you are annoyed with my shitty grammar,(I’m posting without spell check or proofreading) I’m glad to have played the part to help you release some of your own judgment. If you feel the need to message me about something that I spelled wrong, my sprit will thank you for helping me to release the feeling of not being good or smart enough too  :-)

With Love and Fireworks,

Patty

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